Mindful Statements

Children ages 0-6 often listen for key words in your phrasing and focus on the last word you’ve said. As the adult, constantly saying “No” or “Stop” or “Don’t” can be draining and a negative experience for both you and your child.

If you say “Don’t run,” they hear “RUN.”

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Using the phrase “It’s time” eliminates any question or option for your child when you need them to accomplish a task.
“It’s time to use the bathroom.”
“It’s time to get dressed.”
“It’s time to go to bed.”

Be clear and firm in your statement and follow through. Follow up with choices if needed.

“Will you choose your shirt or will I?”
“Will you start with the right shoe or left?”
“Are you going to put your jacket on or your shoes first?”
“If you are unable to make the choice, I will make the choice for you.”

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